Word Press got me depressed ;)

Did I just complain or wail ! Well..what can I write. Since last  week..my reader does show me the latest post by the blogs I follow..but when I want to write a comment..no..it doesn’t open..unless I open it in another window..then it gets hanged..uhu ..so what I do ..well I must read the full article and how can that happen..I went to the comments and those who commented or liked my post..I could write in their post..not bad..then I had to log off..today I am going to my gmail inbox..and from there I am accessing the post and sort of difficult..but well..where there is a will there is a way ..I just hope my previous access gets back into action 🙂

Relationship must sail or it sinks

When you find a woman, let me tell you what to do 🙂 No. don’t ever bribe her with rose or petals with dew. She is just as intelligent and clever as you ! If you agree with me ..then read a word or two.

Treat her as your friend and tell her all your flaws..no never list them serial in all 🙂 Accept that you are not perfect..would like to improve..tell her your shortcomings and see if she understood..not everyone is brave or effective as you :)) so give her chance to adjust with your ways too…

While you are with her..please notice her efforts..look into her eyes..and feel her emotions..Admire, her hair or appreciate her dress..say pretty praise  or say improvement ways..but it should be genuine ..for you are not just saying words as to speak..you are touching her heart as you feel.

Live the relationship and watch it progress..from gestures to bed..and mind you it doesn’t end there..take it one level higher with each passing day..soon she will become love of your life…slowly and surely your loving wife. Little ones will come along as years pass..she will grow to respect you ..trust you at last..love is the first step and trust the last for sure..be confident and easy..enjoy pleasures and woes..together you must sail it..its your ship my captain..never fail it..the journey called life..has turmoil and pleasant days..till you live to say..”My darling I leave you..but my love will stay “

November..I remember

The Year starts with January and as it draws to close..I always waited for November to wish my friend on her birthday..9th day of 11th month each year..the day we planned for hours..starting from games to food :)) Time passed from school days to university then marriage..and we got separated physically..friendship  remained strong..last year I called her on 9th November to wish her “Happy Birthday” her phone kept ringing and sometimes a recorded voice played..that was strange..for she is so perfectly precise and prompt..I panicked and called up my mother asking her to call..my mother returned my call..and told me..my friend died on 8th September..but..why nobody told me..they were too sad..no..it was because 9th September is my birthday..and telling me about my friend’s death would make me feel sad.

I was a bit upset when she didn’t wish me on my birthday..but I never thought she left me forever…it was in September she appeared in my dreams and did say good bye..I never thought she could leave me..I still miss her..when November comes I now remember her with tears.nothing to plan..nothing to celebrate..she is gone..only her loving smile and I recall her voice calling my name..hugging me to show..that I am special to her..love is so addictive..I still want to see her..talk to her hear her tell me what to do and not to do.between the two of us,she was the sweet and intelligent one..always so comforting ..my tears still fall..whenever I write about her..I pray for her daily and I wish to meet her after I die..there is so many things to tell her..earlier she would say,” You know..no matter how many new friends you make..I will be your oldest..since I became your friend from pre-school..and that holds true for me too..” Yes..its true..no matter how many friends I make and keep..your place will never be taken..you re still loved..missed and adored by me..little more each passing year..see ya!